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Get a job doing something you enjoy. You can start in a more isolated job. Don't be afraid of people. There's absolutely nothing that you can lose from screwing up. Find common ground with people, even if it's similar taste in food. Get a good reputation. Get good business contacts. Make friends. Limit yourself to things like piracy and set goals to buy things.
You don't have to be a "social drone" or a "normal" person. Honestly, I dislike most people too, but you have no idea how much easier and better life is if I'm on good terms with them. I have plenty of IRL friends who enjoy the same kinds of stuff I enjoy. Gaming. I didn't find them through the internet. I met them in school. They're not brain-dead LOL HALO/GUITAR HERO. They play nearly everything I play. (They all hate Yume Nikki, though) I often share stories and links online with them and IRL.
I hate if I'm coming off as I'm bragging or something, but I was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome (a social disability) at an early age. Life was hard. I hated people, the only value I ever saw in life was playing Video Games. I had no friends, period, and I had yet to discover the internet. I was full-fledged suicidal in the 4th grade and I was serious. My teacher was the biggest cunt you can imagine and I was the target of the entire school. Everybody hated me. I hated me. The only thing that kept me alive was video games. Period. That's what I lived for.
As time went on I learned how to deal with getting made fun of, I was smart, but here in the USA that's bad for some reason. I soon learned to cope with other people. To not cry when made fun of. To not completely express my true feelings (despite the media's encouragement, this is rarely a good idea).
At this point I did have one or two people who were my friends, although my only friends. They were really nice people and we played lots of games together (usually party-type games). I can't really say I was a core gamer at that point, but I thought I was. Anyways, I started talking to another boy who didn't really like me. I think he was talking about Super Smash Bros. Melee to someone, and eventually I confronted him while doing a running exersize in Gym class and mentioned wavedashing to him, which I had heard about in Nintendo Power. I talked to him for the rest of the day, and as time went on we became friends, and his friends began to accept me. Those same friends are still some of my best friends today, I'm talking to some of them over an IM'ing client right now.
Eventually, I learned how to communicate with other people. I learned how to turn jokes around on other people. I learned how to talk intelligently and professionally. I started paying attention to my schoolwork. I do nearly everything satirically, I always made fun of school essays and such within the essays to keep my attention and do them well. I've actually been recognized for doing so. One of my projects my teacher kept and handed to students who requested it because it was funny to everyone. I did get in trouble once for it, though.
Eventually, my friends and I got into Halo PC for some reason. We started using GameFAQs and long story short, we eventually learned 2 internet. The internet taught me a lot of things, especially about psychology. I love reading about things that interest me. For some reason I love obscure things, which is probably why I'm attracted to Yume Nikki. I also love satire and I frequently lurk Encyclopedia Dramatica. BUT you don't ever talk about that stuff IRL unless you're 100% sure it's safe to talk to other people about it. This is goes for anything not mainstream.
Argh, I've lost track of myself. I'm 15 years old, socially disabled, not especially physically attractive (lots of acne), and I don't share the same interests as most people. Today, I go to a school where the main focus is group-work and project based learning. I hated it at first, but after about a year at working, everyone who I hate looks up to me, I was offered a payed internship involving game development (still no conformations, but I've met with the company), I have a lot of friends, offline and on, make great grades, and I have high goals. I'm finally doing a few classes I'm interested in, Entrepreneurship, Japanese, and an IT Support type thing.
I've also won a presidential award in volunteering and education, which look great on job resumes. Seriously, if you can't find a job, start volunteering, they don't say no. Use that experience to learn a lot, get good contacts and references. That really impresses employers.
I'm witty enough to make people laugh and get nearly everyone on their good side. This gives me a position of power. You said something like you want to take control. I say do it. You have no idea how much power you have. Don't be confused by the liberal propaganda. You can be the leader of a country. You can have the next great technological advancement. You can be the one with books being written about you by other people. It doesn't matter what you were born into, unless you're physically disabled you're nearly as much capable as the rest of us. Again, I can't stress this enough, find friends. Have them introduce you to the people who can set your life off. Make organized goals and strive to achieve them. Don't let anyone bring you down if they say your stupid. Don't argue or deny it. Just do it and prove them wrong.
And, I'm done with the nice stuff. I hate a lot of people and things. But, one of the things I hate the most is people who do nothing to give back to the world that's given them so much. They sit on their ass and contribute nothing, leeching off of other people and stealing others work (piracy). I'm not against piracy, but people who never buy anything are sick. You need to take control of the world you're in and move forward. Then give back in anyway you can. You don't need to save the planet. Make a game, write a book, act in a movie, hell clean a restaurant. Just do something. Normally I would say an hero, but I just feel bad when I see you people. You've made bad decisions, and, yes I know, were born into bad situations, but if I could overcome it so quickly, anyone can. I'm not lucky. Not lucky at all. Nothing ever goes my way, unless I force it too. You have to be assertive, not shy. I can confidentially speak ideas and opinions in front of hundreds of people. Before I even say hello to a person. If you really have trouble, use the internet and anonymity as a shield for experimentation. Go into some forums or chatrooms you're unfamiliar with. Voice ideas and opinions. Experiment. Troll people in various ways to see what pisses people off and what doesn't. Be nice to people and play games and talk to them online. See what makes people happy and what makes them sad. When you feel good enough, try it in the real world. I was raised by the internet, and I see a bright life ahead.
I'm sorry if I'm mean, you fucking do-nothing scum, but you're going to have to not be affected at all, you beautiful beam of hope. You're a terrible, wonderful, putrid, amazing, shitty, awesome, stupid, funny, faggot, intelligent, low-life, great person.
That propaganda you've heard all your life. Work hard, be organized, make friends, all that stuff. A lot of it is true. And a lot of it isn't. Go out and do things. Seriously. Discover what's right and what's wrong. If you can't write a book or something about your life's troubles and get it published. Use your profit to set yourself off into the real world. Just make something out of yourself. There's nothing that can go wrong. Why? Because there is no such thing as wrong.